OPEN LETTER

 A few days back I remember having a conversation about this movie someone saying, SIRF EK THAPPAD KE PICHE! 

It wasn't just one slap I believe. Reverse the role if you may and imagine saying the same. I tried to resist writing about this but sorry I couldn't.

So, fact by fact.

In the first place, why was he comfortable to land his hand on his wife rather than the other people around, or the boss he was basically angry at? He would've lost his job so it was comfortable to switch to the wife and took the anger out.

Secondly, what's done is done. But things turn back to being right when you make an effort to make them right- just a simple sorry solves a lot. She waited and waited for someone to come and ask her if she's okay or for her husband to understand the way she's been feeling. Her love faded and she left. Sounds SIMPLE and RIGHT!!

We assume that it was her duty to sustain the family, to make things work but it's always equality everywhere, in the relationships too. The night it happened, her feelings should've been thought about. Because quite clearly, we're all dependent on each other. We need each other and that should be appreciated.

It takes courage to break the family and doing the right thing and most women don't do it. Kudos to those who are able to step up and actually take an action and separate themselves from someone they're no longer in love with. But, shock remains in the fact that it was impossible for some to understand why she did what she did.

At the end, I hope it's clear that it wasn't just about one slap, but the story that followed.


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